While its a good thing for all stuff to come with a great variety (that gives choices), some things just have terrible extremes. Despite seeing some hope for guys within some frens, there are just some guys in general that are horrible and hopeless. These ppl falls under the mei-de-jiu category.
Basically, today, we had a civics elective module on Mars & Venus which generally deals with BGRs, and the first session was on dating... before i start ranting on how our tcher-in-charge wasn't effective in chairing the discussion n how my grp was so sian diao... There was an awkward silence, and since the tcher asked for opinion, i attempted to break the silence with some thing that another girl said earlier, i think it was smth abt certain girls go on dates to get free treats - movies, meals, etc. I made sure i clarified that, it wasn't the pov of any of the girls present in the grp. but guess wad? i got sarcastic responses from some guys, who were obviously nit-picking on the pt i brought up, such as in the middle of another part of the discussion someone went "ohhh so that you can spend more of the guy's money?" That comment was kinda obviously targeted at me!? kaoz! some guys jus sux.. harloe~ do i look like i dun haf the money to go dutch? and in any case, i'm never gonna spend YOUR money, so why r u complaining?
Another farnie pt brought was abt whether girls should accept dates if they have no interest in going stead with a guy. i was jus randomly commenting on how terrible it is for girls to decline dates (guys should noe its not ez to ask for dates, riteee?). Furthermore, it might just be a platonic relationship, and dun think too much. i din noe how the discussion got twisted, but somehow the tcher ended up asking, "So would u guys rather want the girl to give you a little hope and then later reject you? Or rather be rejected st for the date?" Afterall, the guys all chose option one. lol~ Then he asked the reverse. i m not sure if i caught the exact thing, but i think the guys concluded that they will reject dates if girls ask them out, if they r not interested in moving on any further with the girl. SO they think in the circumstance that the person being asked has no interest in the other party, a girl should accept a guy's date, while a guy should reject if a girl ask them out for a date. (For ur info, its usually harder for a girl to ask for a date then a guy...) Anw, my response was just WTH, and i did gave the u-guys-r-hopeless look, thou i din voice it out. haha. Some chocolates just fall into the defective catergory and deserve to be rejected.
End of complaint session. So girls, pick ur right chocolate! *winks*